March 14

I posted about the weird suspended reality of March 7. Another date that stands out starkly on the calendar is March 14. It’s the day my first marriage ended. Though, now I’d say most relationships end sooner than that last day you’re together. In honor of lessons learned and the …

March 7

This day. Do you have dates that to everyone else are perfectly normal, but for you, it’s something else entirely. A day that isn’t a holiday. The mail comes. The bank is open. Little Sir had school. I had work. A day without decorations, not even a Hallmark card. And …

A Life Without Pets

We’re finally settled in our new house and life is beginning to take on something like a routine. Someone asked me recently if I missed California. I said no, but I miss knowing where everything is. I’m still in the space of not knowing that the grocery store genuinely doesn’t …